社交障礙 - 成人話題討論

By Tracy
at 2017-06-03T14:00
at 2017-06-03T14:00
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各位安,很久沒發文了
看到這篇文心裡有些感觸實在是不吐不快
還且讓我娓娓道來
大概是剛分手到進入職場的時期吧
在開始上班前的一兩個月失戀了
時間從很多變成了更多
朋友只要有局,約了就去
不管熟還是不熟
吃飯、逛街、衝去某個景點、喝酒還有派對
那時候覺得可以一直認識新朋友,大家一起聊天、玩樂
每天都出門,就有在填滿生活
至少可以轉移情傷的注意力吧?我是這樣想的
但幾次之後也發現
每當聚會結束,又是自己一個人時,心裡其實都挺空虛的
我很清楚自己並沒有因為這樣而好一點
尤其出去的對象,是不熟的朋友時,感覺更加強烈
遠遠不及和自己交心的朋友短暫見面聊天來得充實
午夜夢迴時,我還是會傷心地掉淚
陪著我的,也依然是那些知心好友
時間過去,我開始對那些聚會提不起興趣
「那不是我。」其實我是知道的
而這樣的情況,在我開始工作一陣子後,也漸漸收拾起來了
也許是因為時間幾乎都被工作填滿的關係吧
每天最常接觸的,都是工作、同事、工作、同事
有時候下班回家,也得繼續處理一些上班的事情或是唸書
自己的時間,突然變得很少,也相對珍貴
我喜歡把那些時間用來休息,跟自己相處
看自己喜歡的書、滑手機、上PTT講講幹話
聽聽音樂,或是跟寵物玩
只做我喜歡的事,好好放鬆自己
我一樣喜歡跟朋友相處,也不會抗拒認識新朋友
應該說,更加珍惜真正的朋友
可以天南地北、毫無顧忌地聊天,把酒言歡
不需要戴著任何面具
在結束後,回想起來還會不禁嘴角上揚的,那種真實的快樂
是在偶爾遇到煩躁工作或爛事時,真正能夠調劑身心的
對於一些沒話說,甚至是無益的
這種沒有營養的關係失去了耐性
懶得聊天,當然也懶得見面
講了這麼多,我想跟原PO說的是
社交障礙可能連基本交友都是很困難的
我想妳並不需要擔心
妳只是比較懂得善待自己了而已
板上、你我身邊,或者就是在看這篇文章的你
也許曾被感情狠狠潑了一身傷
所以開始用各種方式尋求短暫的快樂,迷失自我
就好像你的傷口在痛,所以你吃止痛藥、打麻醉
當下沒事了,時效過去卻又隱隱作痛,甚至反彈
你出席各種聚會,因為跟很多人在一起時,你才會覺得自己不寂寞
你瘋狂約炮,即使你並不是真的想做愛,只是為了擁抱時對方懷裡的溫度
「只是想要有人陪。」
我懂,這些都OK
在單身的前提下,我也不會覺得這樣不好
人有時候在遇到暫時無法跨越的悲傷或困境時,就會想放縱、墮落
如果這樣做的你們,能夠真正得到開心,那也沒甚麼不好
因為這或許就是你們復原自己正確的作法
但如果不是,希望你們明白
我們都應該用真正的方式去治療自己
其實長越大,或者說經歷越多,我們都越來越知道自己要的是甚麼
也越能在最一開始相處時,就知道對方是不是自己合得來的對象
會不會被人傷害,也許不能完全的預測
但要怎麼走出來,我們可以自己選擇
也許你該好好與自己獨處一下
也許你需要跟幾個知己好好抒發情緒
也許你該好好整理自己,然後等待下一段美好的感情
畢竟生命,本來就該浪費在美好的事物上。
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幹你老師西斯點少到大概只有一句
補個西斯點
真空吸引的方式口交真的很不錯
就是要吸到臉頰凹陷那種
可能不是很美
但臉頰凹著時,對方的肉棒會被你嘴巴兩側的肉包覆住
那邊的肉非常光滑,再搭配吞吐的時候,感覺是非常舒服的
簡單來說,你們要想像自己的嘴是一個陰道!!!!!!!!
大家可以拿自己手指練習,感受一下,記得先洗手
但手指比較細(好像也不一定)
所以可以往旁邊放一點,體驗一下那個溫暖軟滑的感覺
我在打這段時也是含著我的食指吞吐一番後描述出來的
※ 引述《MidoriRain (此綠非彼綠)》之銘言:
: 自從分手後就是過著頹廢生活,吃飽睡睡飽吃
: 但課業跟打工方面還是把我的時間塞滿了
: 所以好像也不到頹廢吧?
: 然後這期間也稍微認識了一些人,發現自己對於交際的方面好像太廢了
: 我太容易對一個人感到厭煩,明明對方也沒做什麼反感的事情
: 可能跟我在上一段感情裡把自己的交友弄得太狹隘了
: 基本交友還是會有啦但我不會再去主動認識異性
: 所以我的異性朋友屈指可數
: 我不得不說,有些人不知道在黏什麼欸
: 來講講一個25歲的男人,用A稱呼好了
: A實在是有點黏過頭了,明明我們什麼關係都沒有
: 我工作時會戴耳機聽音樂(工作上有允許)
: 忘了是哪天,我一直聽到Line的通知聲,也不算一直大概就是偶爾會有
: 等我下班看手機才發現是A在刷我的Line
: 我明明說過那個時間點我在上班了結果A看我都沒回後才自己補了一句
: 「妳在上班喔?」
: 我真的是白眼直接翻到後腦勺再翻回來。
: 我覺得今天就算是情侶也該有點空間吧
: 更何況我們什麼關係都沒有,也只能算網友而已
: 每次下班後Line都會有很多訊息,所以我都是大概回一回後就開始忙
: 前陣子我帶了一隻鸚鵡回家陪我,所以我下班後到家一定是先餵他吃飯
: 於是我回A說我要餵鳥,他也回我好,妳先忙
: 所以我就放心的去忙我的事情了
: 就在我忙了20分鐘後A又傳了訊息過來
: 「妳家鳥很大隻喔,餵到不見欸」
: …………不好意思,我要是餵完了就會回你好嗎這樣咄咄逼人幹嘛?
: 後來我餵完了,讓鳥出來放風,在房間裡飛一飛或是站在我手上理毛
: 這時我就開始邊陪鳥邊滑ptt,這時A又密了
: 「妳很忙喔」
: 我說:因為我在家時間不長,所以餵完他我都會多陪陪他,放個風
: 「是哦,還蠻照顧的,那妳都放多久啊?」
: 我之後就很懶得再回了,因為我就是以鳥為優先啊
: 我的鳥當然比你還重要啊你再怎麼刷存在感都沒用啦
: 這真的是我遇過最雷的網友。
: 想聊聊太久沒處於單身狀態對於異性有障礙的問題
: 是我要求太高嗎但我真的覺得這樣好黏好煩
: 好像不小心打太長了謝謝各位看完這冗長的抱怨
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最喜歡偏欣
又有愛欣的人了 ♥
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