因為男友不是處男而不敢與他有性行為 - 成人話題討論

By Enid
at 2017-03-30T01:52
at 2017-03-30T01:52
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背景介紹:
女方(原PO):27歲,現任男友是初戀
男方:29歲,過去曾交往三任女友,與第二任發生過性關係
我本身比較保守,一直以來都希望自己的第一任男友是沒有過交往經驗的處男
戀愛結婚,彼此都是彼此的唯一,共同體驗各種第一次
因為這種嚮往,所以尋尋覓覓了很久,
才在25歲遇見了現任男友,互相把對方當作結婚對象交往
當初覺得男友老實內向,很符合我的喜好
雖然知道他過去有交往經驗,但應該在性方面比較保守
沒想到交往之後他告訴我,
與第一任女友交往三年至當兵分手都沒有發生性關係,讓當時二十初的他忍得很痛苦
當兵完之後對女性的渴望更強烈,
強烈到內向木訥的他竟然鼓起了前所未有的勇氣,在圖書館留紙條給一個他喜歡的女生
他很幸運地追求到了這個女生,最讓我驚訝的是,
他們認識到交往僅數面之緣,交往後十天就在女生主動下發生了關係
據男友說法是這位第二任女友情史豐富,因此並不在意何時發生關係
男友覺得自己無比幸運能這麼迅速脫離處男行列,也確實有一段瘋狂享受的日子
可惜因為他們交往前認識不夠,兩人個性及價值觀差異很大,約交往半年分手
男友人生中的性經驗也到此結束,
第三任女友因信仰關係拒絕婚前性行為,交往一年後因遠距和平分手,
男友只能與左右手相伴至今
我與男友已交往超過一年半,
一開始非常無法接受他竟然如此輕易與一個認識不深的女生發生關係
也許十天對許多人來說已算不短,
但是對男友這種交往前至少要觀察女生半年的人而言,也算是他人生中的例外了
但是後來閱讀許多文章及經過時間沖淡,我漸漸接受這已無法改變的過去
男友在各方面都與我當初的希望符合,我想天下終究沒有十全十美的事情
所以我說服自己理解他過去的心態及性經驗
也調整自己的想法與價值觀
以前我不接受婚前性行為,現在則認為若論及婚嫁,性行為是婚前必須考慮的
因為與男友交往穩定,我也有在考慮與男友發生關係
但是最近在女性性版讀到有HPV是一輩子的事一文,讓我變得非常猶豫和恐慌
依男友敘述,他的第二任女友應該性生活非常活躍,曾與數名男性發生關係
假如她帶有HPV,男友與她發生關係時也得到HPV
因HPV在男性身上可能無病徵,潛伏期可達數年或數十年(他們三年多前分手),
又沒有方法可以檢測男性HPV,且保險套也無法預防
那我與男友有性行為不就相當危險嗎?
雖然我已施打疫苗,但即使只有1%的機率都讓我卻步
我不禁又想,如果我的男友是處男就不會有這種擔心了……
不知道應該要以什麼樣的心態來面對這件事
或者有什麼做法能夠消除心中的疑慮
希望各位經驗豐富的版友能給予開導或建言,謝謝
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